Not meeting expectations?
Start with human relations…,
Feelings and fluctuations…,
But where is your foundation?
Life is messy…filled with bumps,
Never a “hop, skip and jump”,
Jesus had his share of lumps,
He’s not focused on your slump,
Accept his love and fist pump!
Then the graphic reads:
“At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should happen and live in what is happening. “
This caught my attention because it made me think of all the people I know who need to let go of their agendas. But then the thought came to me, call it my years in men’s ministry or wisdom from the Holy Spirit, that said ‘the best way to change others is to change myself first’.
This caused me to think deeper into all the ways that I am stubborn about how things should go, and all the things that are not working because I’ve maybe not let go of them, and instead just live in the moment and see what God does with it.
Case in point, there is this thing about me that when I decide to do something, I do it with great passion or I just don’t do it. And the thought occurred to me that maybe my job is to just plant the seeds in the process of these opportunities instead. To be a contributor of the process, but not the one to bring the process to completion, that may allow the Holy Spirit to open up the heart to hearing the Gospel though we may not see it in the moment.
Do you think?
How many times do we as men find a project and take charge, or fix things or situations with the confidence that we don’t need any help? We know what needs to be done, and how to do it. And, so, when we see this it should first trigger us to seek what God says about it, even if it takes more time to meet the goal.
When I have done this, other people or circumstances come into the fold that shows a better direction. This is God at work, and we have to be attuned to His voice in these matters.
“But seek first the kingdom [of God] and his righteousness, and all these things will be given you besides. “ Matthew 6:33
Frank J Casella
The CMCS-Team contributed to this article.